10 Tips for Verbally Flirting with a Girl
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One of the most necessary qualities for a person to be considered socially good and charming, is that of flirting. It helps you to be popular with the opposite gender, and makes you a desirable person. And who does not like that? After all, everyone likes to be the most loved guy at any party or gathering, and wants girls to notice him and be impressed with him. Here are a few tips which will help you master the art of verbal flirting with girls, and woo that special someone you’ve been eyeing all night long at the party.
1. Keep her wanting for more
One should always aim at not over doing the flirting bit. The key is to always leave the girl wanting for more. She should never have enough of you. She should always look forward to talking to you more, or meeting the next time. There should be different facets about you that she wishes to uncover. There is excitement in mystery, and keeping that intact is the best form of flirting.
2. End the conversation before an awkward silence
Awkward silences are a total let down when it comes to flirtatious conversations. You should always aim to skip those. Awkward silence is equal to boring silence. The last thing you want is to bore the girl you are interested in. Make sure that you end the conversations at the right time. The temptation to carry on is always there, but you need to resist it. That makes her think that each conversation with you is interesting, and she will look forward to more such talks with you.
3. Always support verbal comments with flirtatious gestures
Gestures are an important part of communication. They reveal more about a person. Your compliments and comments should be accompanied with gestures. There is a very thin line between a nice move and a sleazy move, so make sure you are clear in your head about what you are doing and how you are doing it. Occasionally, patting the person or a friendly hug does not harm anyone.
4. Take the girl’s name as often as possible
People like to be addressed by their names. It makes them feel special, as everyone likes the sound of their name. Starting sentences with her name instantly draws the girl’s attention. And there is nothing better than that, as you will always keep her hooked to your conversations.
5. Make your compliments sound genuine
Men often compliment women. And women are also pretty used to these compliments. You need to make extra efforts to make your compliment sound genuine. It should make her feel that you really mean it. To do the same, you need to make some genuine effort. You need to notice the person and actually pick out things that are different or unique about her and appreciate her individuality.
