5 Reasons to Get Along With Your Mother-in-Law

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They say you not only marry the girl but also her family. Though we have heard enough jokes and stories about how men can never get along with their mothers-in-law, there are enough reasons to give friendship a chance. We tell you why it is important to be on good terms with the mother of your better half.

1. She means a lot to your spouse

The simplest of reasons why it is important for you to respect and love your mother-in-law is the fact that she is an important part of your wife’s life. When you marry someone, you automatically marry their family as well. It would mean a lot to your wife if you give her mother the same kind of affection that you give to your mother.

2. It will help you understand your wife better

Since your wife is her daughter, there are bound to be some similarities in their behavioral patterns and attitudes about certain things in life. Trying to understand your mother-in-law can indirectly help you know your wife better. Also, as you interact with your mum-in-law and learn more and more about how things were when your wife was growing up, it will give you some perspective as to what shapes her present day personality.

3. A rift with your mother-in-law could harm your marriage

If you and your mother-in-law are constantly fighting and arguing then eventually, this is bound to start affecting your marriage negatively. You will soon start having disputes with your wife regarding her mother and would expect your better half to take your side in an argument. By putting her in a tough spot, you are inviting stress in your marriage.