5 Things to Keep in Mind Before Meeting Your Girlfriend’s Parents for the First Time

4. Know what to speak

Speaking is one of the key aspects of this meeting. You have to be very sure of every word that comes out of your mouth, because once something is said, there is no going back. Avoid controversial topics such as politics. Try to speak more of fun things, such as art, sports, and the likes. Yet, if you happen to find yourself in the midst of a topic that can turn ugly, answer very smartly. Do not agree to everything that her parents are saying. That will only show that you’re a man as good as a puppet. Show your personality and say what you want to say with proper reasoning. But do not get too excited or carried away. Know when to stop.

5. Do not rush

Don’t go to meet your girlfriend’s parents when you have to attend a business meeting after an hour. Be completely relaxed and have all the time that is needed. Do not rush. Allow them to initiate things. If they want to talk about their family and tell you about their background, be patient and hear all that they have to say (even if you’ve already heard those stories a thousand times from your girlfriend). Show that you have interest in what they are saying. Don’t keep fidgeting with your cell phone. Only talk about yourself when asked to do so. Be honest but don’t say something that isn’t necessary. If you have an addiction for new gadgets, say that, but you don’t have to say how much you enjoy taking bath with their daughter. Being sensible is the key.