5 Unfair Things to Expect from Your Girlfriend

4. She’ll wait

She won’t wait forever for you. And if you think she will, then you are just being plain unrealistic. You have no right to keep postponing marriage plans, just because you are not settled in your career, and your ego is not digesting the fact that she is pretty much settled and ready for marriage. When she says she has no problems with your career status right now, it means she actually doesn’t care and will marry you anyway. Then why are you unnecessarily making her wait for no reason at all?

5. She’ll change her social life for you

Once you start dating, your friends will become her friends, and her friends will become yours. Everyone gets that. But nobody understands why there is a need for you to constantly tell her to be only around your friends, instead of letting her go out with her own. You can’t constantly keep dragging her to outings with your friends, not giving her a chance to plan something with hers. Give her a chance to include her friends too in your common plans, and don’t expect her to be a silent follower every time you make social plans. She’s your girlfriend, not a tail attached to your body!

So the next time you face some problems in your relationship, or sense that your girlfriend is a little unhappy, think about all these reasons and see what could possibly be leading to the disappointment. Being in a relationship means that both the people involved are meant to be treated like equals. You can’t be unfair to her and expect her to put in more effort than you.