6 Tips to Deal with Your Girlfriend’s Ego

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You could be dealing with a drama queen girlfriend if she has an oversized ego. Inflated egos can cause a lot of harm to relationships. So if your girlfriend is causing havoc in your relationship because of her ego problems, here’s how you can deal with it.

1. Stop paying attention to her all the time

Your girlfriend’s ego may be inflating day by day because you pay too much attention to her all the time. Stop reacting every time she throws an ego tantrum or behaves in a haughty way. When she starts sensing that no around is giving her ego enough attention, she may calm down and understand that no one cares or has the time to address her ego. For example, if she insists that she did the right thing even if you know that she was wrong, just walk away when she starts defending herself and show her that you are not interested.

2. Feign interest in another woman

A good way to make your girlfriend realize that her ego is hampering your relationship is to feign interest in another woman temporarily. This may make her realize that she has been taking you for granted all this while because of her ego. If you play your cards correctly, this may also bring her to her knees to apologize to you for her egoistic behavior.

3. Point out the sacrifices and adjustment you make for her

Your girlfriend may show you her ego and trample all over you if she doesn’t know about the adjustments that you have made to keep the relationship afloat. Every time you let go of something because of her ego, point it out to her blatantly. You may feel awkward doing this but it will serve you well in the long term to deal with your girlfriend’s big ego.