6 Tips to Get Over a Girl Who is Already in a Relationship

4. Have the upper hand

Instead of feeling disappointed and rejected because your crush is already involved with someone else, have an upper hand by changing your perspective about the situation. Think that the future must have something better in store for you and that is the reason you were not able to have a relationship with your crush. You can also have the upper hand by thinking that you are not at a loss but your crush is, because she has lost out on a boyfriend like you.

5. List the bad qualities of the girl you like

Breathe in a bit of objectivity in yourself before you start using this tip to get over a girl who is already in a relationship. List out your crush’s bad qualities along with her personality traits which you don’t like. This exercise will help you to realize that this is not the end of the world and you haven’t lost much. It will make it easier for you to forget your unavailable crush and focus your energies elsewhere.

6. Express your feelings to your crush and bring closure

Sometimes, it is easier to get over hurt and pain when you verbalize it instead of keeping it locked in your heart. The same thing could apply to you too. Talk to your crush openly about your feelings. End the conversation by saying that you spoke to her to bring closure to your feelings, not to make her feel uncomfortable.