6 Ways to Confess That You Were Cheating on Her

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Confessing to your girlfriend about infidelity could be your first step towards purging your soul and taking responsibility in your relationship. Here are a few ways in which you can confess to her that you were cheating.

1. Have an honest conversation about your infidelity

The fact that you have realized your mistake and want to confess to your girlfriend about your cheating is a good start. Now all you have to do is to be honest about it. Don’t prepare a speech that seems fake when you say it in front of her. Be spontaneous and apologize straight from the heart. Elaborate on what made you cheat on her and what you are doing to repent. Lay your heart bare and show her how genuinely sorry you feel.

2. Use specific words and phrases to convince her

Continuously telling your girlfriend that you are sorry is not going to convince her to take you back or make your confession any easier. Instead of ranting on and on about how sorry you feel, use specific words and phrases to convince her. Include affirmative and assertive words in your conversation that assure her that you have decided to turn around. Phrases like “this was an honest mistake,” “I take responsibility” or “I will do anything to win your trust back” may help you in winning her heart.

3. Get a common friend to intervene and calm things down after you have spoken to her

Getting a common friend to speak to your girlfriend may help to thaw her anger and calm things down a little. If you think that your girlfriend may go wild with anger on hearing about your affair, it may be a good idea to keep a friend on standby. This can be especially helpful if your girlfriend has the tendency of going on a rage when she feels depressed.