8 Flirting Mistakes Boys Make

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Flirting is an art and not every man is skilled at it. You may wonder what made the girl reject you and get herself another guy. The answer lies in your approach. Read on to find out some common blunders made by guys in the game of mating:

1. Coming across as desperate

Woman can’t stand guys who are desperate for attention. You need to be self-assured and even if you are very much in love with the girl, you need to give her some space. You will scare off the girl if you come across as needy.

2. Self-pity

You need to show the girl that you are better than the rest. Sadly, most guys do just the opposite. They tell the girl all sorts of sad stories about their lives and believe that she will come and solve all their issues. Guys, girls aren’t aiming to baby sit you and they want a mature and sensible person whom they can deal with on a regular basis. People who think too lowly of themselves are just not in the game.

3. Acting over-friendly

If just a few days have passed by since you met this girl, don’t act over-friendly and request to drop her home or come to her house for dinner. Play it cool. Go slow. Remember patience pays.

4. Getting very tactile

This is a big turn-off. Considering you are still very much in the flirting game, don’t try to act out your love at the first given opportunity. In fact, if you act decent, it will set you apart from other players.