8 Ways to Reject a Girl Tactfully

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Rejection is a painful experience and no one knows it better than the male clan. We have been rejected by girls innumerable times, however, we feel more frustrated while rejecting than while being rejected. Girls are emotional and touchy beings who take things to heart within no time so rejecting their advances should be done tactfully and wisely.

1. Think over it

When the girl has asked you out, you need to give it a good thought. Think about why she may have done so. Is it because of your looks or money or is it something deeper like love? Don’t dismiss or accept the proposal frivolously as the girl may have serious feelings involved.

2. Be firm but polite

While rejecting her you should be firm in your decision and not waver with emotions. Do care about her being hurt but understand that it’s your life and this is your choice. Make it clear in a polite and cordial way.

3. Don’t over analyze it

Although it is wise to give the issue a good thought, don’t end up over analyzing it. The more people think about an issue, the more the situation seems impractical and far from reality. So once you have made your decision don’t be weak hearted thinking about the what ifs.

4. Be friends

If you both were friends before then try your best to maintain the same friendship post rejection. Don’t let awkwardness creep in. Be cordial and the same as you always were with her. Then the ball is in her court whether she wants to be friends with you or is too heartbroken to continue being in contact with you.