9 Signs She is Controlling and Dominating You

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There are some prominent personalities and behavioral traits that can help you identify whether your girlfriend is controlling and dominating or not. Read on to find out what those traits are.

1. She keeps a tab on your whereabouts by the minute

A controlling girlfriend is likely to be obsessed about your schedule by the minute. This may essentially owe to her insecurity and possessiveness. If your girlfriend expects you to keep her constantly informed about where you are and who you are with, it may be a sign that she is the boss in your relationship.

2. She checks your phone, email and other accounts

Dominating women hate to be left in the lurch and to find out something new about their boyfriends from a third person. If your girlfriend thinks the same way, she is likely to have the habit of scanning though your emails, texts and call history to constantly keep a tab on who you have been interacting with.

3. She makes decisions for you

Whether it is about which pizza to eat, what to wear every day or who to be in touch with, a controlling girlfriend will try to manage everything about her boyfriend’s life. If your lady is behaving similarly, you could be living under her thumb.

4. Your efforts and positive qualities are never good enough for her

Bossy girlfriends never find the existing good qualities of their boyfriends to be enough. If your girlfriend always overlooks your efforts to make up to her or if she is always pin pointing room for improvement in your personality, it may be a sign that she is the one calling the shots.

5. She insults you in front of your friends

Has your girlfriend ever put you down in front of other people? Has she ever made a sly joke about you to her friends? If yes, then it means that the reins of your relationship are in your girlfriend’s hands and she maligns your reputation when she pleases to.