6 Ways to Deal With an Insecure Girlfriend

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Is your girlfriend being a pain in the neck by being extremely insecure about you? Is she constantly attempting to follow you or track your moves? Here are a few ways you can deal with an insecure girlfriend and put an end to your miseries.

1. Don’t pay too much attention to her insecurities

Your mind may be distracted by your girlfriend’s worries and insecure nature but don’t let that pull you down. You can talk to your girlfriend and assure her that she has nothing to worry about, but don’t pamper your girlfriend otherwise she may get used to it. Also, the minute she starts sensing that you don’t care much about her insecurities or possessive nature, she may automatically calm down.

2. Talk to her in a soothing voice

Losing your temper and getting agitated because of your girlfriend’s insecurities can be possible. Instead of getting annoyed, calm yourself down and talk to her soothingly as often as you can. Share an intimate moment with her to assure her that there is no reason she should be insecure about anything in life. A short temper will only make things worse.

3. Introduce her to all your friends and colleagues

Is your girlfriend feeling insecure and jealous because you spend a lot of time at work or school with other people? If this is something that you can’t avoid, introduce your girlfriend to your mates. Let her gel with them and feel safe about the fact that you aren’t flirting with any other women. If you are close to your friends and colleagues, you can also ask them to help you put your girlfriend’s insecurities to rest.