How To Become Best Friends With Your Crush

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When you have a crush on someone, it’s obvious that you can’t just walk up to that girl and tell her that you like her. She’d definitely think of you as a creepy and shady guy! However, what you can do is try and be friends with her. They say that the best of friendships often lead to love, and keeping that in mind, you should first try to gain her trust and faith and become a very good friend of hers.

Here’s how you can become best friends with your crush without making yourself come across as a fool!

1. Get to know of her interests

Engage in conversations where you get to know of her interests better. Then make sure you talk to her about those things to keep the conversations and interactions stimulating. If you talk about things that she likes to talk about, then she will have a good feeling about you because of the comfort that will develop. That’s one of the easiest ways of becoming friends with a person.

2. Be Yourself

Nobody wants to talk to people who are just show-offs or who lie about things. Be yourself all the time and don’t pretend to be someone else. Girls respect men who have their own strong beliefs and opinions. If you keep imitating someone else or try to be out of your comfort zone, you will kill your actual character and charm. Your uniqueness is what will make her like you, rather than you trying to fit in a stereotypical image of a good guy.

3. Avoid Being Too Personal

During conversations, make it a point to give space to her. Avoid asking too many personal questions, as that could make her feel claustrophobic. It could even make her feel that you are intruding too much in her private life. So make sure that in trying to be there for her all the time and taking care of her, you don’t overdo things and encroach in her private space.