4 Reasons Why Love at First Sight is Not Real

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How much can you understand a woman at first sight? Well, the answer is invariably going to be a little or zilch. Often, love at first sight is based on physical appearance. While it is not half bad a reason, it cannot be everything to sustain a relationship in the long run. What if the girl you meet looks gorgeous and sexy but turns out to be dumb and a real nag? Would you call the relationship quits? For this you might as well understand someone better to make a decision; at least it would save you heartbreak. Love at first sight is an illusion; very tempting but not real. If this is not reason enough, then read further to learn why.

1. Beauty is short-lived

You notice a pretty thing at the supermarket or the library and find yourself falling for her. You try hard and make her notice you and finally earn yourself a date. The first date is brilliant; you are smitten and so is she impressed. Next comes subsequent dates; she has begun to whine, complain and talk about dumb things that you cannot relate with. Her beautiful looks remain but they no longer interest you. The relationship snaps even before it builds.

2. Undisclosed identity

Falling in love with a person of undisclosed identity is as unsafe as it is ridiculous. Women are not the only ones threatened by unsafe territories or people, men are equally vulnerable. Secondly, how do you know if the woman you are falling for is happily married to someone else or an anti-social element or perhaps someone with whom things are complicated or impossible?