8 Signs She is Possessive and Controlling
5. She is jealous by nature
She grows green with envy for the silliest things ever. Sometimes it can be flattering to know that your girlfriend gets a little jealous about you taking to another girl. However when she crosses the limit of being “a little jealous”, it can be a problem. A jealous girlfriend is someone who will go to the extent of making a scene even if she sees you looking at another girl. She would be someone who would not even approve of your friendship with a girl. Relationships are based on trust and if she can’t trust you, then it is hard to tell how long your relationship will last.
6. She is an attention seeker
She will make up all sorts of stories to get your attention and sympathy. For instance, one night she calls you and says that she is locked out of her house. You go running to meet her like any considerate boyfriend would. But secretly she has hidden the keys herself because she wanted an excuse to be with you. Of course emergencies do happen, but if you spot such emergencies taking place more than they should be, then maybe it is time to smell something fishy.
7. She criticizes you
A good healthy relationship is made out of love, trust and support for one another. In addition to that, it requires mutual respect for one another and each other’s decisions. So, if you have a girlfriend who is constantly poking her nose into everything you do and giving her opinion even when not asked, it can get very irksome in time. No matter how hard to try to impress her, it will never work out, because Miss. Critic will always find a reason why something is not enough. This kind of behavior is a clear sign of an insecure person.
8. She is depressed all the time
It is said that you should always surround yourself with positive and happy people. A girlfriend like yours can be a punishment. Of course, everyone has sad times. But if you are dating someone who is forever sad, it will only make you too become like that in time. She is probably behaving like that in order to get your attention. You may give in to her initially, but later you will find yourself getting tired of doing it all the time.
The more control and dominance in relationship, the lesser are the chances for it to last. Possessiveness and controlling behavior of your partner will not only spoil your relationship, but it will also make you feel frustrated. Hence it is always better to spot such an unhealthy relationship and take necessary measures before it takes over your life.
