6 Signs You are Not Ready for Sex

4. You are doing this to recover from a past wound

Are you hurting because your girlfriend cheated on you? Have you had your heart stomped on and don’t know how to deal with it? Going on a sexual roll will only damage you emotionally. Don’t use sex as a mode of therapy.

5. You’re interested in revenge

You want to get back at her for dumping you, so you sleep with someone she cares about. It sure will shake her up but what good will it do to you? Revenge sex may leave you feeling awful and it’s worse, if this happens to be your first time with a woman.

6. You are unsure of what you want

Make sure you and your partner want the same things. If you’re looking for casual sex and she is looking for intimacy, you need to be honest with her and yourself. If you don’t understand what you want from a sexual relationship, then perhaps you’re not r