5 Signs Your Body Language is Turning Her Away

4. You make the wrong gestures

If you look at the ground while talking to her, it instantly shows your shyness and indicates that you feel inadequate. Also, folding your arms across your chest makes you look defensive and means that you are not open to things. If you flap around your hands too much in excitement while talking, or laugh out too loud at every little thing, you may look like a bumbling idiot.

5. You don’t wait to listen

Listening is as important as talking. Being a good listener involves maintaining eye contact with the person talking, and giving occasional responses. If you let your eyes wander elsewhere when the women in front of you is talking, it shows utter disrespect towards her.