6 Tips to Spot an Insecure Girlfriend

4. She hinders your growth

A nice girlfriend would be delighted if you were going places in your work or academics. But an insecure girlfriend worries that you will ditch her, get drunk in some bar and end up sleeping with another woman in Europe! She will be least concerned about what it means to you and more invested in keeping you tied to her.

5. There is a ‘no female friends’ rule

If she is your girlfriend then you are not allowed to have any female friends. Even if you do, it comes with a whole lot of disclaimers and restrictions – you cannot take her for a drive, kiss her, hug her or even plan a holiday with a group of friends if it includes girls.

6. You have a bland social life

You are compelled to not have anyone in your social life because your world needs to revolve around her or its going to upset her. As a result, all your meals happen together, you go out together and you don’t hang out much with common friends. If you do go out somewhere, your girlfriend always wants to tag along. It shows that she is deeply insecure when it comes to you.