8 Ways to Know if it is Love or Lust

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Facebook totally hit the nail on the head when it introduced a relationship status as, ‘Its complicated’, for most human relationships are exactly that. Differentiating between love and lust is not an easy task at all, and there can be no scientific proof about feelings. One just has to think rationally and refer to these 8 points if you are still muggled up in the lust v/s love confusion.

1.It is lust if you feel like getting intimate all the time

While it’s natural for couples to feel the need to get physically intimate, it’s a sign of lust if that’s all you want to do with your partner. You are not keen on doing other stuff like going for dinners, talking, getting to know her, but instead want to jump straight to the physical part and find any and every opportunity to get intimate.

2.It is love if you both are more of friends than lovers

People who lust for each other don’t want to waste time getting to know each other as only physical interaction and looks matter to them. It’s a strong feeling that vanishes after sometime. However, true love only develops through a good friendship. If you both are best friends as well as lovers, then it’s true romance.

3.It is lust if you have same feelings for other girls too

Your girlfriend may be quite hot, but if you feel like kissing almost every other hot girl you espy and even approach, then you are a lusty player, and not a true lover.

4.It is love if you want to be with only your girl and don’t care about other girls

Your current girlfriend is always on your mind and in your heart. You have no interest in pursuing other girls or don’t feel the same attraction with anyone else apart form your girl.