14 Ways to Stop Fighting With Your Wife
8. Show respect
Another important way of avoiding fights is to show respect. When she wants to make a decision for herself, let her do that. Accept her decisions and never forget to appreciate her efforts.
9. Be humorous
Don’t be angry and serious all the time. Instead, try to have a good sense of humor as it will help you to maintain the happiness in your life. This will also help you to avoid unwanted conflicts.
10. Give adequate time to your family
Sometimes women think you spend too much time out with your friends, at the bar or doing other things besides being at home and caring for your family. Nowadays, men work more and have more demanding careers. All this makes a man’s life tough and he is unable to give time to his family. If you really have a hectic job then use your weekends to spend quality time with your family. Cook for them and play with them in the pool all day. Remember, it is quality time that matters and not quantity of time.
11. Make a list
Make a list of all the past arguments you have had. Sit with her and find out the solutions to all the involved problems. Write down the solutions on a paper. This will help you to remember your duties for a longer time. You can also tell your wife to do the same. Set up a time on which you will share your lists and then listen to each other’s suggestions.
12. Try to find out the usual reasons for your fights
Are your fights always based on big issues such as finance and child rearing or are they about small things such as how you leave a wet towel on the bed? Find out who tends to start the arguments and on which specific topic does the argument take a bad shape. If you think that she always starts the arguments then sit next to a couch and tell her that you don’t feel like fighting after a long day at work.
13. Take help from marriage counselors or marriage experts
This method of ending fights with your wife can be the last resort. This means you have to do the best you can to resolve and avoid any fights in the future. If all your efforts fail, that’s the time to seek an expert’s help!
14. Offer solutions
This final step is skipped by most couples. So, don’t stick around the same problem for years. Instead, come up with the solutions.
