6 Ways to Deal With Infidelity

4. Mull over the pros and cons

Take some time alone to deal with this by yourself. Think over the pros and cons of your relationship. If your partner is repentant and asking for forgiveness, are you willing to overlook this as a minor obstacle and accept her again? Or are you going to have trust issues time and again? Is it better for you, emotionally, financially and physically to continue this relationship or are you feeling she may cheat again? Think over these questions carefully and do what your heart tells you.

5. Don’t discuss with others

Don’t make this unfortunate incident fodder for other’s gossip. You will only be inviting sympathy for yourself and curses for her. Discussing this situation with the person closest to you besides your partner is fine, but don’t divulge it to others, as it will only have negative repercussions.

6. Go for counseling

If you find things going out of hand and you are not able to be in control, it’s advisable to go in for a couple counseling session. Professional help could prove useful for the two of you to understand what to do about the relationship.