6 Ways to Talk about Your Previous Relationships with Your Girlfriend

4. Don’t insult your previous partners by saying derogatory things

It is one thing to ridicule your ex partner but it is a different and disgusting thing to say lewd and derogatory things about them. If you think that you will earn your girlfriend’s affection by being hostile about your ex-girlfriend, then do it in a subtle way. Don’t use words and insults that are completely derogatory. Because if you do so, your girlfriend could start worrying that you will talk the same way about her if you two broke up.

5. Pick the right time to talk about your past relationship

If you want to confess your past relationships to your girlfriend, pick the right time, right mood and right place. Don’t talk about it in a very casual setting, tense environment or in front of others. Tell your girlfriend that you have something important to talk about and find a calm place where you can both sit and talk without any distraction.

6. Don’t lose your temper if she has a mood swing

Your girlfriend may not be too pleased upon hearing about your past relationships. Allow her to vent her emotions and feelings. In doing so, she may have a few mood swings and even throw tantrums. You need to play a crucial calming role by assuring her and not lose your own temper if she has an outburst. If you lose your temper too, you will have a big misunderstanding and an ugly spat with your girlfriend.