7 Signs You are an Over-Possessive Boyfriend

5. You decide what she wears

If you don’t let your girlfriend as much as decide what she can wear, and you decide that for her instead, then you are obsessively possessive. Yes, boyfriends do worry when their hot girlfriend’s cleavage attract dirty looks from other guys. But at the end of the day, she only wears these clothes around you, because she feels safe with you. If you stop her from wearing just about everything she likes, she may gradually start disliking you.

6. You use her friends to stalk her

A very significant sign of an over possessive boyfriend is to connect with your girlfriend’s friends to know what’s happening in your girlfriend’s life. During days when you and your girlfriend have fought, you make it seem to her friends that you are worried about her, and only want to know if she is safe or not, because she wouldn’t respond to your calls or messages. However, the truth is, you are only stalking her with the help of her friends.

7. You expect her to choose you over family

Every time she gets a promotion or something good happens in her life, and she wants to celebrate that with family, you take offence to that, because you want her to be with you. That’s just plain stupid and unacceptable. There are moments of life that need to be shared with family, and not with the ones we are dating. You expecting her to be with you in those moments just because you feel insecure or left out, is absolutely wrong.

Always remember that there is a very thin line between caring for your girlfriend and being over possessive about her. The latter does no good to anybody, and affects your relationship very badly. You must mend your ways before you end up losing the girl of your dreams just because of your wrong ways of dealing with her.