7 Signs You are Scaring Off a Girl on the First Date

5. She doesn’t commit about subsequent meetings

If you have scared off the girl on the first date, this will definitely happen. Invariably, couples depart after the first date with promises of meeting up again soon. However, if you suggest days and the girl keeps coming up with excuses as to why she wouldn’t be free on that day, it means she isn’t too keen to commit. You can trust a girl to speak her mind if she actually enjoyed the date. In some cases, she might even come forward herself and suggest meeting up again. If that hasn’t happened, it is time to wonder what you have done wrong to scare off the girl.

6. She isn’t listening

It isn’t tough to judge if the other person is genuinely interested in what you say. In your first date, it shouldn’t come to a point where one of you is constantly talking and the other is constantly listening. Also, if she isn’t really involved in the conversation, doesn’t ask you much and mostly nods, it means she isn’t listening. It could only mean she is waiting for the date to end, so she could go home. There are some girls who are shy, but shy girls are different from uninterested girls and you can get a hang of which side she belongs to if you observe her long enough. If the girl isn’t interested in knowing more about you, it means you have turned her off or you have spoken way too much already for her to digest. This doesn’t do your prospects any good, especially on a first date.

7. She isn’t ordering for much

If you are out on a dinner date, a big order invariably means a longer waiting period. But if your girl isn’t ordering much, it could mean she wouldn’t reveal her appetite or she is keen on leaving early. Girls will always show when they are turned off, especially on a first date. If they set a short deadline to leave, especially within a few minutes of arriving, it means you haven’t made them comfortable enough to spend a longer evening with you.