8 Signs You are Being Taken for Granted in Life
Being a pushover or doormat isn’t fun for anyone, but there are people out there who display such characteristics and don’t even realize it until it’s too late. Having doubts whether you are being taken for granted by people around you? Then browse through these 8 points to know for yourself.
1.Your promotion is way over due
You have been reminding your boss about your impending raise and promotion but these reminders have been falling on deaf ears. Worse still, you are actually quietly sitting at your desk and waiting for the promotion. It’s obvious your company is not taking you seriously and is not giving you enough importance.
2.Your wife takes decisions without informing you
Major decisions like renovation of the house, changing jobs, children’s upbringing and family events are taken by your wife without you having a clue about them till they actually happen. She doesn’t think you are important enough to be consulted before taking decisions and is hence taking you for granted while herself taking up the lead.
3.Your family doesn’t take your schedule into account
Your family may consult your cousins and siblings about when they are free, to organize a family event, but fail to ask you about your schedule. They think you will always compromise and adjust as and when they want so what is the need to take your schedule into account.
4.Your boss or employees hardly ever hear you
You realize that neither your boss nor those below you are taking your suggestions and orders seriously. Even if they are, they aren’t giving you enough credit for it and you feel sidelined.