5 Steps to Convince Your Girlfriend to Stay With You

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If you need advice on how to convince your girlfriend to stay with you, you probably are in deep deep trouble already. Whatever fights that took place between you guys, and whoever was at fault, if you do not act in a timely fashion, chances are that you would not have a girlfriend who you need to convince to stay with you. Here is what you should do:

1. Initiate conversation

After the both of you have cooled down, and you think now you can discuss your problems in a calm, rational manner, start a conversation, even if it was not your fault. You will have to put in this tiny bit of effort if you want your girl to stay with you.

2. Keep your calm

Because you have already had your fights, it is imperative that you keep your cool even if she is shouting and is angry. After a while, she will calm down, and love you for being so stable and for handling her. Nothing convinces a girl like the ability to handle her at her worst.

3. Involve mutual friends

If talking does not help, reach out to your mutual friends, and treat them as your counselors. Try talking in their presence and resolving your differences in front of them. Do not look for placing blame; rather look for ways you can move past what happened.