8 Ways To Become a Better Man
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Being a better man does not comprise only being a womanizer or being able to get all the ladies – it means a lot more than that. It is the intrinsic essence of being a better human being, having more compassion, being more straightforward and having faith and confidence in oneself to be able to be someone else’s support. How do you do that? It is not rocket science. All you need to do is endeavor to develop yourself in more ways than one. Listed below are 8 ways to become a better man.
1. Identify with social status
You must be able to identify with the social status of the people with whom you interact. In order to become a better man, you not only need to establish a social status for yourself, the intricacies of which will become part of your personality, but you should also be able to identify others who may or may not be at level with your social status. The deal is to be able to successfully communicate and connect with people from all classes – that is what makes you a better man.
2. Stop deceiving yourself
Making excuses to others is fine, but when you make excuses to yourself, you are not really fooling anyone else or getting any benefit out of it. Do not labor under any delusion just so as to make belief that everything is fine with you. The more you do this, the more difficult it will be to deal with the issue later in life. Face your problems now, deal with them now and then you will be a better man, not if you continue to deceive yourself.
3. Practice and then opinionate
Everyone gives their opinions about everything. There is probably nothing wrong with that, but if you wish to stand out from the crowd, do not opinionate about something you know nothing of. There is much more grace in accepting your ignorance than to come across as a fool. If you really have an opinion, first practice it yourself and check how relevant it is, and then you will know whether to state it vocally or not.
4. Work on your weaknesses
Work on your shortcomings constantly. No, you do not need to be perfect in every way to become a better human being. But there are people who know their flaws and try to overcome them, and then there are ones who know their faults but do nothing about them. The former category of people are the ones who achieve something in life because they have not allowed their weaknesses dictate who they are and have challenged their challenges to grow in life – become a person who falls in this former category.
